Fathers of Ihsan
Be the father your kids remember with love.
Fathers of Ihsan is a small, online brotherhood for Muslim dads who want to be more present, emotionally connected, and spiritually grounded at home.
The Mission: To move beyond being just "providers" and become the spiritual and emotional anchors of our homes. We are building a sanctuary where Muslim dads can trade the "silent struggle" for a community rooted in Ihsan.
Limited spots · 60-minute calls · Replays if you can’t attend live
Is this you?
You’re often home, but your mind is still on work or your phone.
You want your kids to love Allah & Rasul ﷺ, not just fear rules.
You carry anger, guilt, or old patterns from your own upbringing.
You’re tired of trying to fix it all alone.
Season 1 is designed around the real struggles dads shared in our survey – presence, deen at home, anger, mental health, and parenting as a team.
WHO IT’S FOR
For the Muslim dad who cares, but feels stretched thin
If any of this feels familiar, Fathers of Ihsan is for you:
You’re physically at home, but mentally somewhere else.
You want a prophetic, loving, emotionally safe home, but you’re not sure how to build it.
You struggle with anger, impatience, or guilt over how you respond.
You carry your own childhood wounds and don’t want to repeat them.
You love your family, but between work, stress, and screens, you feel like they get your leftovers.
You don’t have to figure it all out alone.
WHAT THIS IS
What is Fathers of Ihsan?
Fathers of Ihsan is a small, online brotherhood for Muslim dads.
We combine:
Reminders from Qur’an & Sunnah
Practical tools from psychology and lived experience
Honest conversation with men who “get it”
It’s not a course you consume and forget. It’s a 90-day container where you show up, share, and take small steps together.
SEASON 1 (April - June 2026)
Foundations of Ihsan
Season 1 is built around three big themes that came up again and again in our survey: presence, deen at home, and repairing what’s broken inside us.
Over the course of 3 months we provide:
The Majlis: 2 × 60-minute brotherhood calls per month designed as places of intentionality and raw, honest reflection.
1 Core Workshop (teaching + simple exercises)
1 Circle Call (sharing, hot seats, Q&A)
The Compass: Weekly prompts delivered to your phone to help you stay present during the “daily grind”.
The Diwan: A private brothers-only WhatsApp group for support, accountability, and real conversation.
The Vault: Lifetime access to session recordings & resources, ensuring your investment serves you for years to come.
You’re not expected to be perfect or attend every call. Aim for at least 1 live call per month and consistent small steps.
Month 1 (April 2026)
Presence, Connection & Inner State
Being truly present and emotionally available, without burning out.
We’ll work on:
Noticing distraction & burnout patterns
Building simple presence rituals with your kids
A tiny daily practice for your own heart
Challenge:
10 minutes of undistracted 1:1 time per child most days + 2-5 minutes a day for your inner state.
Month 2 (May 2026)
Prophetic Home: Love, Deen & Gentle Discipline
Being truly present and emotionally available, without burning out.
We’ll work on:
Prophetic parenting principles (mercy, play, repair)
Warm, realistic deen habits at home
Discipline without humiliation
Challenge:
One daily “deen moment” + one daily “connection moment”.
Month 3 (June 2026)
Repair, Marriage & Generational Healing
Anger, apology, and breaking the patterns we inherited.
We’ll work on:
Mapping anger triggers & stress responses
Practicing repair with kids and spouse
Ending one generational pattern, starting another
Challenge:
If you lose it, repair within 24 hours + choose one pattern to end and one to start.
Each month includes one 60-minute Workshop Call and one 60-minute Circle Call, plus weekly prompts and challenges in the group.
THE FOUNDING INVESTMENT
Founding cohort pricing
For our founding cohort, Season 1 is priced to be accessible yet significant. It is an intentional investment that ensures every brother is "all in" while supporting the work happening behind the scenes.
Founding Father Rate: $19/month
Standard Rate (Future Seasons): $39/month
for 3 months · cancel anytime
6 live calls (or replays)
Private fathers-only chat
Weekly prompts & challenges
Resources you can use with your family
Limited reduced-fee spots if finances are tight – just message privately.
HOW IT WORKS
Simple, realistic structure
Join Season 1: get access to the fathers-only chat.
Show up once or twice a month: 60-minute workshop and circle calls (replays available).
Try the small weekly steps: monthly challenges, scripts, and buddy check-ins to help you bring it home.
Build a legacy for Muslim dads: You aren’t just joining a program; as a pioneer, your feedback will directly shape the future of this brotherhood.
This is not about adding more guilt. It’s about adding a bit more ihsan to what you’re already doing.
Our goal is that no father is left behind due to finances. If you are deeply committed but the cost is a barrier, please reach out to us for a partial scholarship.
Frequently Asked Questions
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No. While we ground our discussions in reminders from the Qur’an and Sunnah, Fathers of Ihsan is a peer-led brotherhood, not a clinical or formal scholarly platform. We may occasionally host guest scholars or therapists, but our sessions are not a substitute for therapy or formal Fatwa. For specific psychological or legal guidance, we recommend consulting qualified mental health professionals or scholars.
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Brotherhood is best experienced live, but we know life as a father is unpredictable. All sessions are recorded and uploaded to The Vault within 24 hours. You can catch up on your own time and still participate in the weekly prompts and community discussions.
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Season 1 is designed as a fathers-only space so men can speak openly. In future there may be something for couples, but this round is specifically for you as a dad.
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You are in good company. Many fathers join to listen and reflect rather than lead the conversation. You will never be forced to share more than you’re comfortable with. Whether you prefer to speak, type in the chat, or simply observe, your presence is valued. This is a low-pressure, gentle space designed for every personality.
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It is never too early to start, and it is never too late to heal. The work we do here focuses on the man behind the father. By focusing on generational healing and prophetic character, you become a better shepherd for your children, regardless of their age. We make sure to group brothers by their current "season" of fatherhood so you can learn alongside those in the same trenches.
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Plan for 60 minutes for the bi-weekly calls and about 10 minutes spread throughout the week for prompts. This is designed to integrate into a busy life, not overwhelm it.
Ready to Join The Brotherhood?
“The best of you are those who are best to their families.”
You don’t have to be a perfect father, but you can be an intentional one. Join a brotherhood that chooses growth over "autopilot" and Ihsan over ego. Let’s build a home that feels like a sanctuary.
No experts, no judgment. Just brothers walking the path of Ihsan together.